The Way We Perceive and Judge People

Guest Post by Hailey.

You walk into a place as a girl, people direct their attention at you because of what you are putting on. Your look appears ‘emo-goth’. Teachers perceive you to be a trouble maker. Everyone tends not to be interested in walking up to say hi, but that doesn’t bother you – you are confident of who you are.

The reason for your mode of dressing is best known to you, you feel comfortable with that dressing pattern. Not that you worship the devil or that sort, you are simply being who you love to be. You do not think twice about reflecting who you really are. This sort of girl, people should learn to accept her dress code and understand the uniqueness she possesses.

On a daily basis, people judge the teenagers’ appearance and manner of dressing. The different phrases used in describing them include jock, prep, punk, emo, dork, goth as well as the herd. Treating someone that way isn’t really right, a lot of my friends are described by those phrases. I really do not indulge in judging people that way; however, I end up being snared in this offense often.

In fact, the truth is this; people use those phrases (goth, emo and dork girl) when referring to me. Well, none of those things are applicable to my persona – I’m just a unique person. What matters to me is that I’m just being myself. Back in those days when I started school as a little girl, your looks and what you put on was no issue. Most of my friends then are not my friends right now, and a lot of them do not remember again who I am.

To people, I’m a shadow whom they do not care to give attention, yet I have friends. The things we do appear crazy, and people tend to perceive us in a funny way. On our own part, we had no intention of attracting attention when we do those things. We are only boldly reflecting the ‘real us’.

How would you feel to be treated as if you do not count? I’m sure it will hurt you badly. So why do you treat others that way? I’m making a firm decision to stop judging people, by the way they look. Experience has taught me that even the ones you call preps are quite nice if you get closer to them. Don’t see jocks as dumb people. Even the dorks are people of great fun. The emos will stun you with their sweetness when you get to know them better. Is it necessary that you care how people dress or look? They are only reflecting their own unique personalities and are just like anyone of us. So why treat them as something detestable? We all tend to be guilty of this act.

It’s only sensible that you ponder on this and review the way you perceive and judge people.


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An Inspiring Success Story

The Internet should make it easier for people to learn about others who made it out there and could serve as a source of inspiration for their own ambitious plans. Unfortunately most of the prominent figures that we see in the news are either revealing very little about themselves, or don’t have anything that the readers can relate to. Michael Masterson is not only the exception to the rule, but the kind of person that anyone can learn something from, regardless of what niche is activating game.

What many entrepreneurs look for when seeking inspiration is someone who has achieved something remarkable in their own line of work. Michael is one versatile businessman, and the best thing about him is that even if he hasn’t activated in a particular industry, his ideas can still prove useful for those who do. He came a long way from a pool boy who made the minimum wage to a multimillionaire, and fortunately for the rest of us he is willing to share most of his knowledge.

With more than a dozen of books published and many of them turning into bestsellers, it makes perfect sense that readers get interested whenever Mr. Masterson announces a new release. The Architecture of Persuasion has hit the stores and its aim is to teach people how to push their copywriting business into overdrive. The book consists of a collection of practical advices for those who try to write more convincing newsletters, and generate more revenue without delay.

Immediate and Long Lasting Pain Relief

Muscle spasms and back pains are more common than people might think, and although the condition is manageable, it causes a lot of discomfort. Insurance covers only a part of the expenses associated to physical therapy, and since this is essential for those suffering from this type of pain, the expenses mount. It is no coincidence that the LG-TEC Dual Combo TENS Unit and Muscle Stimulator is so popular, because at a price tag of slightly above $100 it helps people alleviate pain while saving money.

The success of this highly portable device led to the spawning of various copycats and similar products have flooded the Internet. If you don’t want to purchase a fake that fails to achieve the same results, visit LGMedSupply Online and make sure that you get the best bang for your dollar. The standard package is very effective in providing quick and long-lasting pain relief, but there are several accessories that can be acquired to boost efficiency.

TENS Units are easy to use and the manual explains in details everything that the user needs to know about the device, so that he can extract the most of it. The benefits are not only self evident but also immediate, so users will regain mobility right away while pain becomes nothing more than a distant memory. It is just as efficient for people who are trying to deal with mild pain and those who are suffering from a chronic condition, and it has no side effects either.

When Negative And Positive Collide

I want to speak about how one can face negative with positive – head on and how to rise above it. You have always been a happy-go-lucky type; you live life to the full and do everything you consider to be right for a positive and healthy lifestyle.

One day though, or perhaps you are even experiencing it now – someone’s negative energy is going to change all that, pulling you down and holding you back. You need to heighten your positive energy and mental well-being enough so that you can defend it, when being challenged emotionally.

negative and positive

The answer, the final stage to total well-being both mentally and emotionally is finding inner peace and calm. There are many routes to achieving this with meditation and inspirational reading as being good examples. Some of the most difficult negative energies to face are those from the people you love – your partner or a friend.

Although their negative energies may not be due to you or your actions, the fact is that these bad energies are suffocating you every day. It might seem extreme, but it could be a call to break off a relationship or limit the time spent with one another.

If you have tried to show a loved one the light, if you have attempted to pick them up with your positive outlook, and it came to nothing – there really isn’t anything more you can do to help the situation; you can’t control the thoughts and actions of others. It is empowering to grow and maintain a positive attitude; it is one of life’s greatest skills – the power of inner peace and calm.


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