What’s the one thing you hate most when you are speaking, whether it’s in front of a group, or just talking to your friend over coffee? That’s right, when they or your friend is not listening, right? Your friend may be texting another friend, and you’d think, “I thought this was supposed to be our time”. Or you can be speaking in front of a class or a group, and they would all be talking to each other – it’s downright annoying!
Unfortunately, with the onset of social networking, we are all guilty with this misdeed. How many times have you turned off your smartphones during dinner, or put it on silent mode (not vibration) just so you can devote your undivided attention to your companion? That’s right, virtually never. Tell me if this is not a usual scenario: you arrive at the restaurant, pull out your smartphone to update your Facebook status on where you checked in. Then you tweet just how good the appetizer was, how handsome your date is, and how wonderful the night has been.
You may feel fulfilled, but be rest assured that your companion did not feel as excited about it as you. Who would be excited when the person he is with keeps on “talking” to other people who are not even in the restaurant? That must be pretty annoying. So the next time you pull out that smartphone or other handheld device, ask yourself this: is updating your digital status more important than actually experiencing the experience?
The National Sleep Foundation recently disclosed that only one-thirds of Americans feel that they get enough sleep during the week. The rest claims to have insufficient sleep time, and almost half claims to “rarely or never” getting sleep during the night. Wow, does that mean that’s how many Americans are disturbed, carrying a burden, or having a difficult time?
Initially, I did not worry about this until few days ago. At first, I thought that taking a stroll during lunch breaks and keeping up with my morning gym sessions would compensate for the period of time I spent sitting on the desk. However, my whole thought changed when I stumbled on a critical publication on American Journal of Epidemiology. The publication was on a study that reveals the close link between sitting down for long hours and increased risk of death.
Don’t feel bad if you can’t pinpoint where your money slips away to; you are not alone. It is not easy to keep count of each dime. However, there are some who do, and some of them do it for the motivational purpose while others do it just for fun. There’s a growing rate of personal finance blogs as well as an economic spotlight regarding saving and spending, which has also brought a good number of financial diaries to light.
