Is Social Networking Making Us Antisocial?

What’s the one thing you hate most when you are speaking, whether it’s in front of a group, or just talking to your friend over coffee? That’s right, when they or your friend is not listening, right? Your friend may be texting another friend, and you’d think, “I thought this was supposed to be our time”. Or you can be speaking in front of a class or a group, and they would all be talking to each other – it’s downright annoying!

Social Networking Unfortunately, with the onset of social networking, we are all guilty with this misdeed. How many times have you turned off your smartphones during dinner, or put it on silent mode (not vibration) just so you can devote your undivided attention to your companion? That’s right, virtually never. Tell me if this is not a usual scenario: you arrive at the restaurant, pull out your smartphone to update your Facebook status on where you checked in. Then you tweet just how good the appetizer was, how handsome your date is, and how wonderful the night has been.

You may feel fulfilled, but be rest assured that your companion did not feel as excited about it as you. Who would be excited when the person he is with keeps on “talking” to other people who are not even in the restaurant? That must be pretty annoying. So the next time you pull out that smartphone or other handheld device, ask yourself this: is updating your digital status more important than actually experiencing the experience?


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Having Sleepless Nights? Blame the WorldWide Web

There used to be a time when sleeplessness was associated to having problems or difficulties in life, which disables the person to sleep properly. Or it was also associated to a particularly heavy burden of work load, depriving individuals to get that much needed daily R & R. Nowadays this is far from the truth.

sleepless nightsThe National Sleep Foundation recently disclosed that only one-thirds of Americans feel that they get enough sleep during the week. The rest claims to have insufficient sleep time, and almost half claims to “rarely or never” getting sleep during the night. Wow, does that mean that’s how many Americans are disturbed, carrying a burden, or having a difficult time?

Not so. The same study reveals that of the same demographics surveyed, an astounding 95% use some sort of device that lets them get hooked to the outside world, even if they are already in bed, literally and figuratively. Handheld devices such as smartphones and iTouch, televisions, laptops, video games, these are all devices that people attend to, even right before they close their eyes to sleep. Most people are now talking to their friends before they sleep, and even before they get up from the bed. And then there’s the ever present television, which is just like a babysitter who tucks kids to sleep at night and keeps them warm.

With all these distractions, it isn’t much a wonder why people sleep less and less everyday. Whether it’s the excitement of talking to friends, or the actual effect of having difficulty in sleeping due to exposure to artificial light, we clearly need to detach ourselves from the outside world if we want to get some sleep.


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Prolonged Sitting Makes our Body Grows Wider

I consciously ensure that I work out regularly and stay active each day; however, I spend a substantial part of my weekdays sitting in a desk chair. The only time I move other parts of my body is when I’m going to shower, or to the watercooler. Then, for the rest of the time, it is only my fingers that move against my PC keyboard.

sedentary lifeInitially, I did not worry about this until few days ago. At first, I thought that taking a stroll during lunch breaks and keeping up with my morning gym sessions would compensate for the period of time I spent sitting on the desk. However, my whole thought changed when I stumbled on a critical publication on American Journal of Epidemiology. The publication was on a study that reveals the close link between sitting down for long hours and increased risk of death.

The conclusion of the study was what scared me – there’s little or no difference, whether you exercise or not …scary, isn’t it? The results of the study show that those sitting times daily exceeds six hours are at high risk of dying (as at when this study was conducted) when compared with men and women who do not exceed 3-hours sitting down. You may think no one can actually sit as long as six hours – when you consider that majority of Americans are engaged in desk jobs (from 9am – 4pm at least).

You would realize that it is possible to sit for that long. Besides, they spend their days-off sitting back at home. It really got me thinking about our sedentary mode of life and the impact it has on us. This is how I went digging until these critical facts came staring at me.


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Spending Mindfully – Can You Tell How Much You Spend Daily?

What’s your daily spending rate? Consider all those areas that money slips into almost unnoticed – at Starbucks (the $5 latte), your favorite soup and sandwich combo lunch that cost almost $12, your annual $1,500 vacation, which costs approximately $5 each day. If your annual income is not up to $90,000; when you sum all your daily expenses, excluding heavy expenditures on items like cars, housing and household bills, it is possible that you spend nearly $60 daily on the average. These statistics are a result of a recent research conducted by a renowned research institute.

spending habitsDon’t feel bad if you can’t pinpoint where your money slips away to; you are not alone. It is not easy to keep count of each dime. However, there are some who do, and some of them do it for the motivational purpose while others do it just for fun. There’s a growing rate of personal finance blogs as well as an economic spotlight regarding saving and spending, which has also brought a good number of financial diaries to light.

Here’s an instance;
College students at a particular university kept a record of their weekly spending in a spending diary once a week. One student from that college details how she keeps the record. According to one particular student, she used moleskin notebook to pen down every expenditure and have all the figures moved to a spreadsheet every Sunday.

On the other hand, one blogger student frequently posts monthly spending recaps listing regarding his expenses on gifts, dining, housing, travel, entertainment, clothing and others. This kind of expenses amounted to an average of $42 daily; housing and utilities are not included. This figure is 29 percent lower when compared with an average American. In a similar manner, another blogger wrote on how she embarks on her spending tracking method, especially her vacation expenses, which have a strong lure to hand over the cash.

Do you want to know how you can compare with the average American when it comes to everyday spending? Here are tips to help you find out what your daily spending is;

• After 401K contributions and taxes, take your monthly income and do the next step

• Deduct any after-tax savings (funds sent to CDs, Roth IRA contributions, etc.) set apart.

• Deduct your car payment, rent or mortgage

• The figure resulting is your monthly spending

• Use 30.5 days to divide the figure you got above (as your monthly spending); the value or figure resulting would give you your daily average spending.

This is how it goes, if you earn $3,500 in a month – out of which you spend $1,000 on rent, $200 kept away in an emergency savings account, another $200 spent on car payment. It means your monthly expenditure is $1,400 – remove this amount from your monthly pay, and you would be left with $2,100. Divide $2,100 by 30.5 days of the month, the result would give you a daily spending value – $68.

Knowing your daily spending is a great way to determine where to make necessary adjustments in your spending levels.


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